Here we go again, dear Singles. It’s February and Valentine’s Day is just about here. Yippee. Yeah, right.
The New Year’s confetti was barely off the ground before I literally saw “red” overflowing in the store aisles. Retailers couldn’t wait to display their Valentine’s Day items…Candy, bears, cards, candles, underwear… all kinds of mushy crap.
Don’t you wince just a little when you see the bulging Valentine’s Day area or perhaps avoid going down that particular aisle altogether? It’s not a bitter issue...well, maybe a bit, but all that fuss can make you feel a little left out. What about the single person? Where’s that day? Where’s the occasion for the single gal, the single mom, even the single guy? Do we not have feelings? If you cut us, do we not bleed?!
Okay, I’m being very dramatic but it had to be said. Now, let’s put things in perspective. It’s just another day. It’s the last “couple occasion” that singles have to get through, then its smooth sailing until the end of the year. Barring something scary coming up, like a surprise wedding invite.
So how can a single person get through V-Day and its sea of red people? I have a few options. Some are productive, others, well... you decide.
Ignore Du Jour!
If you have to go to work, proceed and treat it like any other day. Otherwise, call in with the 24-hour V-Day virus, then ignore the day and stay home and pig out. Unlike the holidays that drag on for days, you only have to get through the next 24 and it’s over.
Pssst…You are not Alone!
It would be really scary if this were the case but thankfully it’s not. There will be many singles at after work Valentine’s Day parties and happy hour gatherings. Check the local paper or surf the net. Don’t miss a chance to meet and verbally malign the day with other sexy singles.
Misery Loves Company… and Martinis!
If you think you’re really going to feel down that day, avoid staying home alone and watching the barrage of lovey-dovey movies or listening to a series of sappy love songs. If you’re not in the mood to attend a public event, get together at a friend’s house or invite some single friends over. Bash the day with food, folks and a Cosmo!
Shop and Save!
There’s an advantage on this day for the single heart…. Big savings! We don’t have to do any major planning or make crazy reservations. We don’t have to stand in that never ending card line, make a fancy dinner, or wait on a list to get waxed, pressed and spit-shined. No special prep for us. We’re good to go, as is. Basically, it’s more money for shoes! Use this opportunity to take advantage of the sales. If you don’t mind wading through the crowds, put on your shades and hit the road.
I Love You!
Who is there for us 365 days a year? Our friends. Send an e-card or text and tell them how much you appreciate them or call up your single pals and wish them a “Happy Valentine’s Day!” I’ve done this for my family and friends and vice versa. If Valentine’s Day is about love then it’s a perfect time to show it.
Love Thyself!
Whether you buy yourself flowers, draw a bubble bath or pour a glass of your favorite wine, do something special for yourself. Be your own darn Valentine and treat yourself right! Remember, chocolate makes everything better. So load up on your favorite sweets now or wait until the 15th for the sale and plenty of yummy leftovers. Either way, stock up… get a sugar high…and kiss another V-Day goodbye!
Happy Valentine’s Day, Friends!
N.Corbett
